DIVORCE PEACEFULLY
When Divorce is the Only Option,
Use My 30-Plus Years’ Experience to
Guide You to a Peaceful & Collaborative Parting.
Mediated Divorce Settlements with One Lawyer
Compassionate Guidance to a Peaceful Resolution
I help families and couples across Texas. Videoconference mediation works very well and resolves as many disputes as in-person mediation.
Since 1992, I have helped resolve family law problems, including divorce. I have seen every type of property & debt; and dealt with every issue involving children.
Texas now allows a couple about to divorce to sign a binding agreement with the help of a mediator before filing for divorce. I work with both spouses to reach an irrevocable agreement fairly dividing their property, setting up time for the children with each parent, and providing for the children’s support.
Early in my career, I realized ending a marriage in the same forum where we resolve car wrecks and contracts is inappropriate. Pre-suit mediation lets the spouses/parents decide what’s best for them and their children, rather than a busy judge who doesn’t know them. Divorce is a lawsuit, and the judge only knows what the rules of procedure and evidence allow. Mediating your own agreement without the deadlines and formality of litigation puts the parties in charge. — Brian McNamara
Who Can Benefit?
- Couples Before Filing: Reach an agreement early and avoid litigation entirely.
- Couples in Progress: If your divorce is already filed, we can adapt the process based on your stage and legal representation.
- Texas Residents Anywhere: Licensed in every Texas state court, I offer effective videoconference mediations no matter your county.
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Everyone was extremely helpful and professional no matter when I called. Ms Gama was very thorough in explaining the process to me when I had questions and would quickly track down any information that I asked for.
Thank you McNamara Law and Terri Kizer. She was very helpful and answered all of my questions. She is very professional and detailed and I am grateful for her help with my situation.
Attorney Brian is the top family law lawyer in the Houston area in my opinion, as he is so facts and detail oriented in line with Texas Family Code. it seems to me knows each and every rule and precendent from Texas Family Code.
My husband and I had the privilege of being represented by attorney Aaron Wallace who was assisted by paralegal, Janette Gama, in our 2.5 year long custody battle. Aaron was phenomenal in educating us on the Texas Family Laws and kept us informed throughout the entire process. Aaron’s expertise helped guide us on decision-making and court processes. Janette worked diligently to keep all exhibits organized and communicated any updates regarding the case in a timely manner. We were truly blessed to have had such an amazing team who were devoted to upholding justice and fair/equal parenting rights. Most importantly, Aaron persistently presented the children’s best interest to the judge and successfully achieved favor in granting my husband equal parenting time that not only he deserved, but that the children deserved as well. Our family is beyond happy with the outcome of this matter and we are forever grateful for the time and effort that Aaron poured into helping us get to this point. Thank you all so much for everything you all did for our family.
High integrity, smart, and hard working. You want Brian McNamara on your side.
I cannot express enough how grateful I am for the incredible support and guidance I received from McNamara Law Office. They truly care about their clients and go above and beyond to achieve the best outcomes! Highly recommend!
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incredibly attentive and detail-oriented, making sure every aspect of my case was thoroughly addressed. Their professionalism and dedication to my case were outstanding, and I felt supported and well taken care of throughout the entire process. I am grateful for their expertise and would not hesitate to turn to them for future legal matters.
incredibly attentive and detail-oriented, making sure every aspect of my case was thoroughly addressed. Their professionalism and dedication to my case were outstanding, and I felt supported and well taken care of throughout the entire process. I am grateful for their expertise and would not hesitate to turn to them for future legal matters.
An amazing, knowledgeable and professional team. I highly recommend McNamara Law Office.
Why Choose Mediation Over Litigation?
Divorce doesn’t have to mean a courtroom fight. Traditional litigation treats marriage like a contract or a car accident—cold, procedural, and impersonal. After years of practicing family law, I’ve seen how this approach strains relationships, harms children, and leaves spouses feeling drained.
Mediation offers a better way:
- Personalized Process: No rigid rules of evidence or procedure—just a focus on what’s fair and practical for you.
- Cost-Effective: Less expensive than a drawn-out, litigated divorce.
- Child-Focused: Prioritizes the well-being of your children over conflict.
- Binding Outcomes: Thanks to a 2019 Texas Supreme Court ruling (Highsmith v. Highsmith), pre-divorce mediated settlement agreements are valid, irrevocable, and enforceable under Texas Family Code.
Whether you’re just considering divorce or it’s already filed, I can help you avoid the courthouse and find peace of mind.
Ready to explore mediation? Contact me at 281-358-3444 for a consultation.
How Does It Work?
My mediation process is flexible, collaborative, and designed to fit your needs. Here’s how we’ll work together:
Initial Reduced-Fee Consultation
- We’ll meet (in-office or via videoconference) to discuss your situation, explain the process, and assess your goals.
- You’ll sign an agreement confirming I’m a neutral mediator—attorney—ensuring transparency.
Mediation Sessions
- Unlike traditional mediation’s marathon sessions, we move at your pace—often in shorter meetings.
- A session might focus on property division, another on child custody and support.
- I’ll use my 30+ years of experience to guide you toward a fair agreement, not dictate a decision.
Review & Finalization
- Before signing, take time to consult a lawyer, CPA, or financial advisor if needed—I encourage it.
- Once signed, your Mediated Settlement Agreement (MSA) meets Texas Family Code standards (Sections 6.602 and 153.071), making it binding.
Filing the Divorce (Optional)
- I can file and finalize your divorce for a flat fee, drafting a decree that matches your MSA.
Start today—call 281-358-3444 or schedule online for your consultation.
How Does It Work?
My mediation process is flexible, collaborative, and designed to fit your needs. Here’s how we’ll work together:
Initial Reduced-Fee Consultation
- We’ll meet (in-office or via videoconference) to discuss your situation, explain the process, and assess your goals.
- You’ll sign an agreement confirming I’m a neutral mediator—not your attorney—ensuring transparency.
Mediation Sessions
- Unlike traditional mediation’s marathon sessions, we move at your pace—often over multiple shorter meetings.
- One session might focus on property division, another on child custody and support.
- I’ll use my 30+ years of experience to guide you toward a fair agreement, not dictate a decision.
Review & Finalization
- Before signing, take time to consult a lawyer, CPA, or financial advisor if needed—I encourage it.
- Once signed, your Mediated Settlement Agreement (MSA) meets Texas Family Code standards (Sections 6.602 and 153.071), making it binding.
Filing the Divorce (Optional)
- I can file and finalize your divorce for a flat fee, drafting a decree that matches your MSA.
- If the agreement falls apart (rare, but possible), I’ll dismiss the case and step aside.
Start today—call 281-358-3444 or schedule online for your consultation.
Frequently Asked Questions
What makes mediation different from arbitration?
In mediation, I guide you and your spouse to an agreement—there’s no imposed decision. Arbitration involves a ruling, but my process empowers you to shape the outcome.
How long does it take?
It depends on your needs. Some couples settle in one or two sessions; others take more. Unlike litigation mediation, we don’t rush or quit after a single day.
What if we can’t agree?
If mediation fails (which is rare), I won’t represent either of you. You’re free to hire attorneys for a traditional divorce, and we part ways amicably.
Can I still consult my own lawyer?
Absolutely. I encourage you to review the agreement with a lawyer or advisor before signing—it’s your decision, and I want you to feel confident.
Is this really binding?
Yes! A 2019 Texas Supreme Court ruling confirms that pre-divorce MSAs meeting statutory requirements are irrevocable and enforceable.
If you are getting divorced and want guidance from an experienced lawyer to help you and your spouse mediate an agreement, please call me my name is Brian McNamara. I have been a Texas family lawyer since 1992. It’s unfortunate the law ends marriages in the same forum and with the same rules as it resolves contracts and car ranks at the courthouse early in my career. I saw this is not ideal it’s unnatural the family code provides some rules but the general rules of procedure and evidence apply in family law and they are inappropriate for end ending an intimate relationship no matter how comfortable you are or are not with getting divorced it’s impossible to suddenly think of your spouse as an opposing litigant the way you would somebody who hit your car or a business yourself the nature of marriage no matter how long the marriage has been makes it unrealistic to suddenly see your spouse as an opposing litigant it’s unhealthy and bad for children mediation is a great alternative most mediations H happen after a divorce has been filed each party has a lawyer and the spouses have litigated against each other for several months maybe over a year.
I offer an alternative the Texas Supreme Court holds that a mediated settlement agreement signed before a divorce is filed that meets the statutory requirements of the Texas Family Code is valid it’s binding it’s irrevocable reaching a binding agreement makes the process of pre-divorce mediation worth the cost and effort it’s less than a traditional litigated divorce and you get the security of an enforceable agreement.
I can help you reach that agreement without litigation by video conference or in my office I use my 30 plus years of experience my legal knowledge and knowing what works to get to a mediated agreement that divides property and does what’s best for your children this is not arbitration I do not issue a decision I guide spouses or parents toward an agreement.
I can also help if your divorce is already filed mediation is a great way to end a dispute no matter how far along it is the first step is an initial reduced fee conference where I describe the process and determine generally where everyone is in terms of the divorce and making an agreement sometimes a single additional conference gets it done often there’s one conference for property and another for children unlike litigation mediation we don’t schedule one session for four or eight hours and then quit and head to court if there’s no agreement several sessions are usually needed everyone moves at their own speed before signing an agreement each spouse has time to consult a lawyer a CPA a financial advisor a therapist school counselor whomever they want during the initial conference.
I explained that spouses sign an agreement acknowledging I am a mediator and represent neither of them after a mediated settlement agreement is signed that conforms to the Texas Family Code.
I’m available to file and finalize the divorce the mediated settlement agreement called an MSA includes a provision about who will file the divorce and be the petitioner. I can write the divorce decree per the MSA to learn more about mediation before fighting for divorce or even if your divorce is already filed. Please call 281 358 3444 or email us to schedule a reduced fee conference. I’m licensed to practice in every County and State Court in Texas from Justice of the Peace to the Texas Supreme Court mediations by video conference are common and highly effective. I can help no matter where you live in Texas and I look forward to hearing from you
I’m a Texas family law attorney serving couples statewide since 1992. With over 30 years of experience, I’ve seen the toll litigation takes on families—and I’ve dedicated my practice to offering a better alternative. Licensed in every Texas state court, from Justice of the Peace to the Texas Supreme Court, I bring deep legal knowledge and a compassionate approach to every mediation.
Brian McNamara
Texas Family Lawyer
Accolades & Associations
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Divorce is hard, but it doesn’t have to be hostile. Mediation offers a path to closure with less conflict and more control. Whether you’re in Houston, Dallas, Austin, or anywhere in Texas, I’m ready to assist you—by videoconference or in my office. Call 281-358-3444 or email us to schedule your reduced-fee consultation. Let’s work together toward a fair, enforceable agreement that puts your family first.
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